A lubricated Massage is far superior to a dry one. There are mainly scented oils, hot oils and flavoured oils. Nevertheless, they make Massages more enjoyable. Rub creams and oils into the areas of tension by a circular motion and kneading with fingers. Pounding gently with the side of the hands will also relieve and satisfy your lover when massaging. Make anal activities more enjoyable by desensitising the area. Desensitisers contain a mild anaesthetic this is what causes the numbing sensation when it’s applied to the skin. There are three basic types of lubricant dressing, oil-based, water-based, and silicone-based. Each type has its advantages and disadvantages, so the word is……. experiment!