HAVE YOU EVER ASKED HOW CAN I BE A BETTER LOVER? – Read and leave comments to have a chance of winning a sex toy.S.K
If you are asking yourself “How can I be a better lover?” know that you are not alone!!!
And let’s be honest, you will never be. Even though there might be loads of people out there bragging about their capacity of being the greatest lovers, their partners might have different opinions. I have definitely asked myself how can I be a better lover.. quite a few times; and the best answers (for me) came after I analysed my past relationships/relations. How can I be a better lover from the psychological point of view? From where I stand, this would apply when you are in or when you start a relationship and I would relate it to the friendship part of the story. You might know couples who mention that they are each other’s best friend. I agree with that, yeeet, remember… we don’t want them to know exactly how “dark and twisty” we can be! However, I believe that the saying: “a friend in need is a friend indeed” has a lot of truth in it and it’s especially important in a relationship. For example, when my boyfriend gets slightly sick, his entire Universe kind of collapses. I could argue about how much he overreacts, yet I started thinking about how can I be a better lover and instead of doing that, I would pamper him for a while and slowly, but surely, try to make him meet me halfway. For me, it works! It’s all about getting to know someone and adapting to a situation that will make everyone happy! However, the most obvious word you can think of continuing the question “how can I be a better lover?” is “how can I be a better lover in bed / physically?”, isn’t it? Well, this is where you need to allow your imagination to expand. However, if you aren’t such a… “creative” person (as I am), we can thank God that we have Google nowadays and this one is full of ideas!
You can try to be a romantic lover, an enthusiastic lover, an adventurous one, a funny one, a kinky one…. better refers to the way you think you can take yourself to the next level! So, for me, I decided that my next level would be “the playful lover”. Having said that, I thought about buying ourselves some “Santa’s little helpers”. Keen on knowing what I got? 🙂 As I love online shopping, I was recommended to browse through www.boxesoffun.co.uk, and I bought 2 items as I thought we should both benefit from this! As he loves anal and I kind of don’t, I got myself… or himself, actually, the HOT CINNAMON ANAL LUBE. Now, for me, I’ve got the FETISH FANTASY 10.5m PURPLE BONDAGE ROPE. Results? Above “extreme happiness” level! Another thing that pops in my head when I think about “How can I be a better lover?” would be respect and consideration towards my significant other. As you knowing, keeping your “wonderland” constantly checked and free of “intruders” is definitely good for you and also, good for your partner/s and it has an impact on your sexual vigor. Yet, some of the things you keep in your fridge (or you will keep after reading this article!) are the guaranteed steps to get you in that horny mood. My favourite food items that help me maintain and improve my “kinky” lover level are:
1. Avocado – besides it’s healthy and nutrient side, its potassium and vitamin B levels have an impact on our libido. Should we mention that the Aztecs named it “the testicle fruit”? (Ahhh they knew a lot….)
2. Bananas – again potassium and I guess we all name it “the penis fruit”, don’t we? The moment you put your lips on that banana, your man will be jumping… on you!
3. Oysters – for the gentlemen! Not only they look similar to ladies’ “wonderland”, yet the zinc inside them, crank the testosterone level!
4. Omega 3 – ladies, you should love this, as almost everything containing omega 3 is healthy; knowing that it speeds the sex-hormone production it just makes it even better!
All in all, deciding how you want to “upgrade” your level it’s entirely up to you. Make yourself aware of your current level and keep in mind that there is always your partner who can help you with suggestions! By being able to fulfil their fantasies and their most twisted dreams, will definitely make you the best lover for them. And if that’s what you want… you can consider yourself the best lover! Just keep surprising them!
What ideas do you have to share on how we can all be better lovers? Leave your comments below sharing is caring.
written by: IrinaSaes. Approved by S.K