Here are 200 EPIC conversation starters for dating & relationships. Bookmark this page & Enjoy!

Here are 200 EPIC conversation starters for dating & relationships

Here are 200 EPIC conversation starters for dating & relationships. Bookmark this page & Enjoy!

 200 EPIC conversation starters for dating & relationships.

Whenever you meet someone, it tends to start with a physical attraction. Dating is pretty much about collecting information on someone until you realise you don’t like them anymore, or until you know they are the right person to keep in your life!

This list of 200 epic conversation starters was compiled from our very own experiences. We believe these topics will put you on the right track to having eventful, fun and insightful dates for the future.

Also, why not make your dinner date conversations more fun instead of wasting time talking about unimportant stuff. Try out our recommended fun dating games from The Skin Deep, they have many different games for different people who want to explore the mind on a deeper level.  

Research people’s interests & have meaningful conversations about the following to see what you have in common. Explore the mind of the person you are dating to see if you share the same values, opinions and mindsets.

Talk about Love/Sex, Fun, Fears, Desires & Beliefs. Money, Ambition, Habits, Religion & Politics. The future, past and present things. Random stuff & current affairs/news are all relevant in getting to know someone.

  1. What are you most passionate about?
  2. What did you want to be growing up?
  3. What’s your dream job?
  4. What would you be doing if you weren’t in your current job?
  5. If you were a writer or blogger, what would you write about?
  6. If work was no longer an option and you had plenty of money, what would you do all day?
  7. What is your favourite habit?
  8. What are 5 things you want to accomplish before you die?
  9. Who has been the most influential person in your life?
  10. If you were to patent an idea or thing, what would it be?
  11. What do you wish you were better at?
  12. Do you have any hidden talents?
  13. What talent do you wish you had?
  14. What is the last thing that you learned that changed you?
  15. If you won the lottery, what would you do?
  16. Favourite present you have received? And will always want to get? 
  17. What’s your biggest goal right now?
  18. What’s your favourite thing about your job?
  19. What have been your greatest achievements so far?
  20. Do you have any side hustles?
  21. How should success be measured? By that measurement, who is the most successful person you know?
  22. What is the longest book you have read?
  23. What type of books do you read?
  24. What are you reading at the moment?
  25. Do you usually achieve the goals you set? Why or why not?
  26. What is the best way to stay motivated and complete goals?
  27. What are some of your short-term goals?
  28. What are some of your long-term goals?
  29. What’s one great book you’ve recently read?
  30. Where do you see yourself 3 years from now?
  31. Here are 200 EPIC conversation starters for dating & relationships
  32. What’s been the most significant or best year of your life so far?
  33. If you could give your younger self advice. What would it be & why?
  34. What’s one thing you did as a kid that you miss most today?
  35. Do you still keep in touch with childhood friends?
  36. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
  37. What’s the worst pickup line you’ve ever heard/dished out?
  38. What’s the last event you bought a ticket for?
  39. Who’s your best friend? And why are they your best friend?
  40. What’s your favourite childhood memory?
  41. Did you have any nicknames growing up? Now?
  42. Ideal residence/area to live in? And why?
  43. What was the happiest day of your life?
  44. What recent interesting or controversial conversations have u had recently?
  45. What is the best piece of advice you have ever received?
  46. What do you wish you knew when you were a teenager? or 20 years old? Or whatever age?
  47. What were you like as a child?
  48. If you could time travel to any period of time, when would it be and why?
  49. What’s the worst job you have ever had?
  50. What’s the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?
  51. Do you ever think about your Ex’s? And why?
  52. Has anyone ever saved your life?
  53. What was the best birthday wish or gift you’ve ever received?
  54. What’s the best advice you have given to a friend or family member?
  55. If you could redo a year of your life over again, what year would it be? And why?
  56. How would your best friends describe you?
  57. What is the first thing you noticed about me that interested you?
  58. How do you want to be remembered?
  59. I love hearing other people’s stories. Do you have one to tell?
  60. What sort of humour are you into? Who’s your favourite comedian?
  61. If you could change 1 thing about yourself, what would it be?
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  63. What’s something I wouldn’t guess about you?
  64. How do you like to spend your mornings? Morning routines?
  65. How do you like to spend your nights/evenings? Evening routines?
  66. What are you most afraid of? And why?
  67. Have you studied Black / African history? Asian history? British history? What were your findings and what are your views?
  68. Are u religious? Do you believe in a creator?
  69. A coincidence in your dreams? Do you have recurring dreams?
  70. Tell me about your family.
  71. Are you closer to one of your siblings? And why?
  72. What are your favourite scriptures or religious quotes?
  73. Are you an Introvert, extravert or ambivert?
  74. What are your favourites? Books/films that changed your life. Colour, food, drinks, places, sports etc. 
  75. Do you want children? 
  76. Believe in abortion?
  77. What is something about you that will get me addicted to you?
  78. Do you believe in marriage & prenup arrangements?
  79. Favourite kid’s names?
  80. What do you think about interracial & relationships and dating different nationalities?
  81. What are your habits? And what habits have you formed recently?
  82. What are the 3 strongest qualities of your personality?
  83. Tell me something bad about yourself.
  84. Tell me something about your personality that you would like to change?
  85. What qualities in a man/woman would u compromise on. Nobody is perfect. What qualities could u live without?
  86. Explore relationship history. Ask questions in this area!
  87. What keeps you up at night?
  88. What foods do you hate? and do you have any allergies?
  89. Are you spontaneous or a planner?
  90. Are you more of a giver? Or taker? You can only choose 1.
  91. Are you a listener or a talker?
  92. What do you do to get rid of stress?
  93. Here are 200 EPIC conversation starters for dating & relationships
  94. What three words best describe you?
  95. If you could learn the answer to one question about your future, what would the question be?
  96. Do you believe in soul mates?
  97. What are your turn-offs?
  98. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  99. Would you rather be rich and never find true love or be poor and find true love?
  100. What do your parents do for a living?
  101. What’s your biggest regret?
  102. Are you a saver or a spender?
  103. What is the real reason why your last relationship ended?
  104. Do u believe when u sleep, your dreams are linked in any way, to how your life will be when you are awake?
  105. What are your sleep patterns like?
  106. Do u think your greatest fears come to you in your dreams? This may be why they are recurring.
  107. What’s one saying you try to live by?
  108. What do you do to improve your mood when you are in a bad mood?
  109. What makes you nervous?
  110. What is your advice to me, regarding dating you?
  111. Do you think our upbringing will affect our relationship in a positive or negative way? And why?
  112. What is a lesson your parents taught you, that you now know is wrong?
  113. If your Ex was here, what would they warn me about you?
  114. Which one of your friends do you really want me not to meet and why?
  115. When it comes to relationships, what do you think is the most important part to me, and why?
  116. If heaven was a moment to be relived over and over again. What would your heaven be?
  117. How do your finances affect your relationships and why?
  118. What do you think turns me on, that you think I’m afraid to admit?
  119. How do you think we should go about building this relationship?
  120. What is something that you will never give up? And why?
  121. What is your definition of love?
  122. What is an experience you have had, that you wish i could have? And why did you choose this experience?
  123. How do you know when you are in love?
  124. Here are 200 EPIC conversation starters for dating & relationships
  125. What do you like most about living where you live?
  126. What is something that you have never done before that you would like to try once?
  127. If you had three wishes from a genie, what would you wish for?
  128. What are you most likely to stay up all night talking about?
  129. If you could be a character in any movie, who would you be?
  130. Top 3 things you can’t live without?
  131. Who do you talk to the most?
  132. What is your favourite dish to cook?
  133. If you were stranded on an island and could take three things with you, what would they be?
  134. What’s your favourite animal?
  135. What’s your all-time favourite song/artist/band/genre?
  136. Are there misconceptions about yourself you wish people wouldn’t make?
  137. If i approached you on the street would you talk to me?
  138. What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you?
  139. Did vote in or out for Brexit? (UK)
  140. Have you got any good riddles or jokes?
  141. What are your shopping habits?
  142. What house choirs do you like the least?
  143. Are you into gadgets/technology?
  144. What is 1 superpower you wish you had?
  145. Have u met psychic people before?
  146. Lethal injection last request? What would it be?
  147. Current Affairs & topics on the news.
  148. What’s your favourite place in the entire world?
  149. What’s your favourite way to spend a weekend?
  150. What do you like to do when you are not working?
  151. What’s something you are bad at?
  152. Do you think there is life on other planets?
  153. What are your top 3 holiday destinations? Places you haven’t been to.
  154. Who is your favourite celebrity and why?
  155. Here are 200 EPIC conversation starters for dating & relationships
  156. Have you ever seen your parents having sex? How did you feel and how did it affect you later in life?
  157. If you could have 1 wish, what would it be and why?
  158. Would you be proud if you had a child exactly as you are?
  159. Do you have any pets? What are their names?
  160. What do you think of tattoos? Do you have any?
  161. What do you think you have yet to learn about your life?
  162. What’s your favourite number? Why?
  163. What’s the most useful thing you own?
  164. Have you ever spoken in front of a large group of people? How did it go?
  165. What animal or insect do you wish humans could eradicate?
  166. If you had to change your name, what would your new name be?
  167. What is your guilty pleasure?
  168. Do you prefer to watch movies in the theatre or in the comfort of your own home?
  169. What are the three best apps on your phone?
  170. IOS (Apple)? or Android? what is better & why?
  171. How often do you check your phone?
  172. What are some good and bad things about the education system in this country?
  173. Are bigger or small schools better? And how does this affect the children’s development?
  174. Time freezes for everyone but you for one day. What do you do?
  175. You have to relive one day of your life forever. Which day do you choose?
  176. What was the last big thing you purchased?
  177. Do you play any instruments?
  178. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
  179. What is the most valuable thing that you own?
  180. If you were told you had 30 days to live, what would you do with your time?
  181. If i had a magic wand, what could i do to get rid of your biggest problem right now?
  182. If you had the choice to be 5 years older, with 10 million in the bank, or start your life over at the age of 15, with all the knowledge you have now, what would you do?
  183. What’s the biggest loss you have ever taken?
  184. You are in a plane crash. The plane is in the Antarctic, 20 miles from a town. What do you salvage from the plane?
  185. What TV shows are you watching at the moment?
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  187. What artists are you feeling at the moment musically?
  188. What games do you like to play? I play chess/Minecraft, Call of duty etc.
  189. What are your favourite Youtube Channels?
  190. Describe your favourite animal in 3 words? I will then guess what it is.
  191. Describe your favourite colour in 3 words? I will then guess what it is.
  192. Are you addicted to anything?
  193. What would your perfect night out or in be?
  194. What is your love language? Words of AffirmationQuality TimePhysical TouchActs of ServiceReceiving Gifts
  195. Have you ever been in love? How did u know u were?
  196. Do u fall in love easily?
  197. Are you the emotional type or are you not expressive with your emotions?
  198. Do you think my relationship with sex will be changed by being with you?
  199. Describe in detail how you think i would like to be seduced?
  200. What kind of man/woman do you fall in love with?
  201. Would you prefer a Rich man with a small dick or a poor man with a big dick?
  202. What’s the craziest thing you have done for a guy/girl?
  203. On a scale of 1-10, how submissive are you in the bedroom? You can’t choose the number 7.
  204. What are your top 3 body parts of a Man/Woman? And why?
  205. What part of your body are you most proud of and why?
  206. On a scale of 1-10, how high is your sex drive? You can’t choose the number 7.

Comments (3)

  • Flaminia C Reply

    I recently got into a new relationship and I got introduced to what I thought to be wonderful ice breaker, and what I now know is a healthy communication aid for couples. It’s a fun game to encourage the discovery of your partner in new and deeper levels. I would go as far as saying maybe, with a question-a day approach it could be the drop of daily water and care to keep your relationship in full bloom all year around.

    April 18, 2022 at 7:48 pm
  • Pesci Reply

    The answer to Question 110 would most probably be “How did you meet him, and why are you with someone who talks to themselves and replies back?!” Heheh.

    April 19, 2022 at 6:39 pm
  • April Reply

    Awesome facts guys amazing

    May 29, 2022 at 12:24 am

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