The truth about how to keep your libido healthy – Read on our blog and comment.

sex and libido

The truth about how to keep your libido healthy – Read on our blog and comment.

Having a healthy sex drive or libido is an important part of a healthy relationship. Some people may find that their sex life isn’t the same, and that they no longer have the same drive or sexual urges that they used to have. Lots of things can affect you libido, and it’s important to recognize if you have a problem, and maybe it’s time to do something about it. Even if you do not have issues with libido, there are ways you can increase it, boost it, for a more fulfilling sexual relationship. If you’ve wondered what you can do, then read on. We have put together a top 5 list of things you can do to increase your sexual libido. Make sure you read to the end, because you might be surprised what you find.

  1. Stress – Let’s face it, who doesn’t get stressed out? Stress can have a huge impact on reducing your sex drive, and makes it hard to focus on anything else if you’re really stressed out about something. This can cut in on the time you would have some fun with your partner or become aroused. So the best thing to do is take some time, and unplug. Let go of your worries even for just a little while. Take a calm or relaxing bath, light some candles, light some incense, and forget. Get your partner to use some massage oils on you after your bath, and simply relax. Relaxing together can be very important, and sex can relieve so much stress. If anything, give yourself that excuse to have more fun
  1. Drink Red Wine – Here’s something I bet you didn’t know: It’s been reported in a study that women who drank a glass of red wine almost daily had higher levels of sexual drive and desire. Red wine has a lot of health benefits and it’s another good reason to help you relax and increase your libido. And for the best tip that we like to give when it comes to red wine, break out some dark chocolate with it. These two combinations will leave you feeling romantic, and everyone knows that chocolate is a wonderful aphrodisiac.
  1. Fantasize – Having some healthy fantasies can really liven things up. Whether it’s dressing up in a costume or starting out with some entry level bondage gear, acting out fantasies can really awaken your sexual imagination. It’s a fact that couples who act out fantasies or who engage is some bondage fun, have a much more fulfilling sexual life, and happier relationships. It’s always a good idea to introduce something new in your relationship to keep it alive, and feeling new and exciting. Wear lingerie, dress up in costumes, and have some strip tease fun.
  1. Awaken Your Senses – Here is an unusual trick that can really bring some amazing results. Have you ever stopped to just taste a strawberry? I mean really stop and enjoy as slowly as possible? You can do this with anything. Get some fruits for the taste and smell, some feather ticklers for skin sensations, and anything else that you can think of to awaken your imagination and senses. You will be surprised how this can relax you, release stress, and help you understand that your senses are a big part of your desires and wants.
  1. Sex Toys – Yes, I bet you already knew, or were just waiting for the big one. Sex toys do a lot of things that many people don’t think about. Many people or couples get excited to try out that new latest and greatest vibrating toy. From finger vibrators, tongue vibrators, and men’s and women’s masturbators, there is so much to choose from these days, that you can have endless amounts of fun. It’s very exciting to get a bondage kit for the first time, and try out some fantasy play. And getting a sex toy or two to use on each other will have you so excited, that you’ll wonder why you haven’t tried it before.

Boxes Of Fun Ltd. UK carries a HUGE variety of sex toys with many more coming this year. Bondage kits, vibrators, massage oils, and a whole array of costumes for a wild time for you and your partner. If you dont see what you want on our store, it does not mean we dont have it. Simply make a request in our chat area or contact us and if we can get it, you will see it become available in our store within 48 hours.

Comments (8)

  • Anonymous Reply

    Thanks for the advice! Although me and my man are happy it’s always good to try new things and switch it up to keep it interesting. Besides, an article that tells me to drink wine and eat chocolate is one I’m going to listen too ????

    March 28, 2016 at 9:11 pm
  • Vivienne Reply

    I think I will go with the red wine option, and look for a sex toy. ????

    March 28, 2016 at 9:32 pm
  • Shay Reply

    Great tips! Whether I’m feeling stressed just opening a bottle of wine makes it all better and great sex can brighten anyones day, toys are definitely a must have in the bedroom mixed with alcohol and massages what could get better than that! I’m sure being a women having some massage oils, sexy fantasies and sex toys would feel like Christmas but for a man none of these are needed just a good bit of oral sex will make him feel better and boost his libido lol. Having fun and experimenting in the bedroom will definitely keep your sex life alive for both you amd your partner and if all fails just do it yourself with amazing sex toys!!!

    March 28, 2016 at 10:13 pm
  • Nathan Reply

    I use the Bubba roots drink. A tonic that always keeps me functioning properly. 🙂

    December 14, 2017 at 6:31 pm
  • Sidney Reply

    Red wine for us works wonders ?

    January 1, 2018 at 7:47 pm
    • S.K Reply

      What a coincidence, me too lol. There must be something in it.

      January 2, 2018 at 7:28 pm
  • Egor Reply

    Great article, ive heard about the red wine and chocolate thing from various sources. It does work, but can backfire if you drink too much of it.

    December 8, 2018 at 9:39 pm
  • Pip Reply

    Red wine is a winner 👍🏻

    November 9, 2020 at 9:15 am

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

Select Language
You can now request a credit/debit card invoice at the checkout.SHOP NOW